Tell a girl she’s beautiful; she may believe it for a moment, but tell a girl she’s ugly; she’ll believe it for a lifetime. More likely if you tell her she’s beautiful, she’ll say you, “No, I’m not.” Unfortunately, girls are learning at a young age that beauty is something it’s not. They are too easily accepting the socially accepted idea of beauty and their body image becomes distorted. I have seen many beautiful women look in a mirror and dislike what they see. If y’all women could see yourself through my eyes, you would truly see how beautiful you really are.
According to the 2006 census, United States has over 300 million people with 155 million being female. Recent studies also tell us more than 62% of American women today are a size 12 and above; this represents about 96 million women.
Now consider this simple question: If 62% of women are size 12 and above, why aren’t they considered the normal size, instead of ‘plus sized’?
Furthermore, when surveyed men prefer curvier gals. When tested by looking at comparison images; the largest percentage of men preferred the size 12-14 women (38.8%) to the size 6-8 women (10.7%). In fact, curvy women, size 14-18, came in second (25.5%).
Learn to love the body you’re in and your guy will too, hell, he probably already does. Let yourself love it too.