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How To Talk Dirty: 50 Examples That Will Make You Blush!

124 Comments 15 June 2010

By Nellioness

“Just lie back and let me make you cum”
“You taste so good”
“You can have me any way you want, babe”
“Look how ready I am. Don’t you want to put your dick in there?”

What do you feel as you read this? Did that just turn you on a little bit? Yes? Then this article is for you! No? Then this article is for you!

Aww, those dirty words… They are powerful and seductive in the bedroom and many of us use them for expression and effect. Yesterday my friend asked me if I know how to talk dirty. So today I’m going to share with you some dirty talk tips and examples that will help you figure out how to approach the naughty fun of talking in the sack and feel more comfortable about it.

As for me, talking dirty is an essential part of my sex life and one of the naughtiest things I enjoy. Dirty talk is the opportunity to really push back all the boundaries and stops. Being sweet and polite by nature, and expressing my dirty side in bed and blurting out sexy rude things is a lot of fun and gives a spice to my sex life.

Talking dirty to your sweetheart is a great form of sex play, but there are certain things you must keep in mind in order to have the best experience.

What is a Dirty Talk?
Dirty talk (sexy talk, naughty talk, etc) is a sex play involving sensual/sexual phrasing in order to drive one’s partner or oneself wild through words and imagination, and heighten sexual pleasure before and during sex. Through a dirty talk you can stimulate your partner’s major senses: sound, sight and touch. Lovers use dirty talk as a way of expressing their wants and needs in the heat of the moment.

If done right and at the right time, dirty talk is one of the hottest things you can do for your lover!

How to talk dirty?
Types of Dirty Talk: the soft-core and the hard-core.

The soft-core dirty talk may include sweet nothings, and “not so dirty” phrases and words. The soft-core version is a great way to start with dirty talk. In the beginning it is best to stick with the words you already know these work well and gradually add new naughty words and phrases here and there during sex. After all, who says a dirty talk has to be always vulgar? First of all, it has to be comfortable for both lovers and sound seductively enough to make you aroused and ready for more! We all know that sometimes the simple statements work incredibly well.

“I love the things you do with your tongue”
“Honey, you’re the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen!”
“I want you so bad”
“Your wish is my command”

The hard-core dirty talk may involve swear words and slang words. Many lovers find it extremely hot if you use them, especially if you don’t usually swear. If you prefer to use some of the most vulgar words and phrases known to man, then so be it as long you are comfortable with it and keep it within both of you. Talking dirty is like a secret with your sweetheart, a secret that only you two know and enjoy behind closed doors.

“I want to rub my pussy all over your face”
“Spray your juice all over my tits”
“Put your big fat baby maker inside my pussy and fuck my brain out. Right now!”
“This is how a real man fucks!”

Dirty talking ways
A great way to sound sexy and dirty is describing out loud what is happening during sex, how wonderful it feels in your body; talking out your dirty fantasies; telling your partner something you’re going to do and something you want your lover to do to you right now. If you can hold eye contact as you’re describing it, you get some extra pleasure, believe me. And one more thing: complimenting your lover is one more way to sound dirty in the sack. Compliment and praise your lover, give her/him an ego boost. Talk about his/her body and tell him/her about your favorite part of his/her body. Be descriptive and creative!

“You look so sexy when you do that”
“You taste sooo good”
“Oh, that feels so good! Do that again!”
“No one has ever made me come as hard as you can”

It’s not what you say, but how you say it
Dirty talk doesn’t involve only words and phrases. You may use your voice and sounds: moans, groans, sighs; whispering and screaming. You can sound commanding and harsh, submissive and uncertain, and everywhere in between.

It should come naturally from you
Please, do not say words that make you feel uncomfortable. Try to be yourself and say the words that come out naturally. Just say what comes to mind. So, in order to sound spontaneous and really sexy, you have to wait for the right moment because if a dirty talk isn’t done right and at the right time; then prepare to deal with laughter and giggles 🙂 After all, the point of dirty talk is to have fun, so don’t worry if it sounds funny!

Sometimes the laughter can give way to the most natural dirty talk and dirtiest phrases! So, if your sweetheart’s dirty talk makes you laugh, say something like “Shut up, sweetie, and use your mouth on me. I adore that!” or “Don’t talk dirty to me, play dirty to me!” 🙂 Perfect: now you’re talking dirty!

Dirty talk boundaries
When the subject of dirty talk comes up, the first thing to do is communicate your dirty talk boundaries. If there are words that you don’t like, you have to tell your sweetheart. Once you have agreed on what works and what doesn’t – have fun!

Dirty talk is not disrespect; this is a sex play
Behind closed doors, almost all women enjoy being treated like a little whore every now and then. But everyone should separate a sex play from reality. So if she is a “bitch” in the sack, that doesn’t mean that she would like to be called a “bitch” outside of the bedroom.

Okay, so you are in the mood to talk sexy/dirty/naughty to your lover and aren’t sure what to say? I hope the coming examples will come in quite handy.

50 Dirty Talk Examples, From Not-So-Dirty to So-So-Dirty!

1. Tell me all the dirty little things you do when you masturbate, you naughty boy/girl. Tell me everything, baby. Tell me how you play with yourself.
2. Do you like it when I touch myself here?
3. Lie back and shut up! I’m going to make you come until you can’t breathe.
4. Kiss me there… Lick every inch of me.
5. Come over here and ride me hard!
6. Fuck me. Right now!
7. Use me as your toy all night long.
8. Touch yourself and let me watch you.
9. Do you want more? Take it!
10. Give me that come, honey. I want it in my mouth. Come on, give it to me.
11. It drives me crazy when you look at me that way.
12. I’m going to do you right now, honey. Your pussy… or your ass…?
13. Well, you stupid fucker, I won’t let you fuck my ass… So what?
14. Shut the fuck up! I’ll fuck you wherever I want, naughty little whore!
15. I always get what I want.
16. Okay, babe, you can have any hole you want.
17. I love the way it sounds when you fuck me. Hear it?
18. I want you to suck out all the juices you put in me with your mouth.
19. Baby don’t stop! Oh my god, I love it when you do that!
20. I’m so fuckin’ wet, just let me suck your sweet lollipop…
21. Put your baby maker inside my hole and fuck my brain out!
22. Just grab my head and force me closer!
23. I’m your slave for the night. Tell me what you want.
24. You can have me any way you want…
25. Get over here, big boy. And show me who’s the boss!
26. Where do you want to come?
27. I want it all over me. Cover me with it.
28. What a sweet sexy ass!
29. Do you like my juicy pussy/big dick? Tell me what you see. Describe it to me.
30. You’re my bitch. I adore how naughty you are. I love you.
31. Babe, you have to follow all my rules tonight.
32. No stops this time. Let’s see how many times I can make you come.
33. Don’t you dare come until I say you can!
34. Maybe you should spank me – I’ve been very, very bad.
35. I want you to undress and wait for me in the bedroom.
36. Get on your hands and knees, sweetheart… and wait like a good girl.
37. Spread your legs wide for me, sweet darling. Your body is mine tonight.
38. You like it when I spread my legs and take you in?
39. I can’t believe what you’re doing! Please do not stop!
40. I love pleasing you and the sounds of your pleasure drive me crazy.
41. You little slut, I’m going to fuck you till you can’t walk! Ready?
42. Fill me up, daddy, fuck my tight cunt! Make me scream with that big dick of yours!
43. Faster! Deeper! Harder!
44. What a hot nasty girl you are! I will wash your mouth out with my cum if you talk dirty, naughty girl.
45. I love how big your cock gets when I talk to you like this.
46. I love sucking your cock. And I’m going to lick it clean.
47. Cum for me baby, cum in my mouth, I want to taste you.
48. I could spend hours between your legs; teasing… sucking; sipping; tasting you.
49. I want you. I want to make love with you. I want to enjoy sex with you. I want to fuck you.
50. Oh, baby, that was the best fuck I’ve ever had. Thank you for that.

Don’t be quiet in the bedroom! Be a good girl/boy who knows how to be bad and talk dirty. 😉 Work your way into it and take it easy!

Recommended links online dictionary of sexual terms, expressions, vulgar speech, sex slang, quotes and synonyms

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124 Comments so far

  1. Jordan says:

    I love when my wife gets in her mood I am always telling her I can’t wait till you fuck a guy over my face again I get a nice View of our man cock I would lick it while his cock is going in and out of you sweet pussy she loves to watch me with a huge cock in my ass I love it so much I tell he I would rather have the huge fucking dick deep in my ass then to fuck my wife I will never give cock up I will Share it I Love looking back at him and telling him harder you fuck me harder I really love my lady tells him and telling him after you’re done with me you fuck my wife so hard more I never found something that’s such a fucking turn on to look up at my sexy wife yelling an my wife will force him deep in my ass again none of this is made up I love him fucking my wife I really would never give this up for anything in the world i’ve even had my wife’s mom come in while he’s fucking my ass and me moaning his name telling him to fuck me harder I loved it I looked right at her mom and told her i would absolutely love to have my way with you and my wife looked at me and said I love you Jordan I really like your cock I even love him deep in you I really love to watch things like this I would love you even more if my daughter was involved but I have something for you I’ll be right back she went upstairs she crabbed the biggest dildo i have ever seen hey well are you going to work that in my ass I love cock in my body i can take it all the way in I told her don’t tell me just fuck me and i promise I’ll love you forever I love my wife and her mom so much for the best sex life ever I could ever ask for her mom told me that she will do that to me at any time any day! Just ask me I love that you are open about you loving cock deep In your ass I wish you would let me fuck you mom I have to be a tease some how and I’m a lesbian thank you so much for letting me fuck you Jordan did you like it that big yes I love it I not going to stop one day will you fuck me with a strap on no Jordan I will let Amber do it ok baby your mom fuck my ass and I want more your ass is so crazy dripping I love it please have him fuck me face and ass some more cock in me and well he asked me fuck you yes so fuck me NOW I want cock in your pussy fuck I only want your cock I use you for you dick and Jordan’s not done he still has to cum In my ass. I want him to fuck me slow I love how he was seeing a new thing came his way and he tried to roll with it I wish Jordan fucked your mom so hard I promise she would have love it I love how guys both go crazy over my mom she only came over to us cuz she wanted my ass hole I Would have rocked her world. Jordan she would shove that fucking huge dildo so so far up your ass and give you head at the same time I can see her playing with my ass hole getting fucked on my lap please dont take that dildo out I will hold it in my ass I think I want a even bigger one ok we will get you a bigger one I love how your mom can fit her whole hand in my ass with no fight at all I love you baby I some guys fucking you non stop turned me on I want my mom to play with you Jordan I like how she smiles at you and talks dirty to you Jordan told my mom to lick your hand clean. Ok Jordan I saw ambers mom lick her hand. baby you won’t ever eat my ass out why is that I would fuck you both. I would love to eat your ass out out baby and your sexy milf mom I wish to god to have her say I Love the stuff that you do to my ass I thank you milf are you getting a little jealous of your mother gets my cock?!? I told you to be cuz I’m going to fuck your mom. I still always I feel like trying Jordan’s cock in my pussy no I want u to look at that’s so fucking hot not may I fuck you Rebecca. Only if it’s you Jordan I will let you fuck me and do what ever to me. I need you in my ass I love it I love your pussy taking everything. I got you Jordan back. I love you to Jordan back at you my milf. I want your ass all over my fucking huge cock. I love my wife is jealous of you Rebecca. I’ve always wanted to eat your pussy and you sweet ass. I literally told Amber if I ever got the chance I said I promised you I’m going to fuck your mom harder faster than I will ever have sex with anybody else I love the way that she takes the dildos and fucks my sweet ass with them. Teach Amber everything you know that I love please ok i will I wont her to love start fucking my ass I want my shit pounded so hard so fast I don’t care who does it to me I want to here my wife say u like that Jordan I want someone to fuck my ass I will let any guy that I think is hot with a big dick fuck you in your ass as much as he would prefer I want him to tell you to leave me so you can have his dick all the time I love that you really did my a sex partner that would absolutely love to fuck my husband if I wanted told you to I would stay with you I would have sex with him every night and it would make you watch come up to me and asked me if I am Jordan I tell him lay down

  2. No More Missionary for me says:

    I am 43 and just now becoming sexual…I have always been quiet – still, missionary, but no more. I can’t get enough of this…I finally found a lover that’s bringing these feelings out in me and it’s freeing – although it’s difficult to start. So thankful for this blog!

  3. Matahari says:

    I love it when he hasn’t put it in me yet and I’m squirming for it and my man says “beg for it, bitch!”! I have big tits, so it makes me hot when he tells me that just looking at them makes him want to throw me down and ball me till I scream. When I’m about to come I like for him to say “That’s it! come all over my cock!” When he’s getting close and pumping fast and deep, it often makes me come again when he says “I’m gonna empty my nuts in your cunt!” I like men who moan and grunt a lot, and get louder as they get closer. Nothing turns me off more than a “breather” whose orgasms sound no different from the rest of the fuck!

  4. Laila says:

    Ooh my gooood thank u so much my hubby love me he can’t live without me he found me so dirty and he adore me thank u for helping

  5. brian says:


  6. WhiteSmith says:

    Nice one. I like this blog great.

  7. WhiteSmith says:

    Great you shared best blog. I think it is best 50 Examples That Will Make You Blush!

  8. jessie says:

    My bf loved me being so dirty. Thank u so much.

  9. Jenna says:

    “Let me sit on your face…” personal fav…

  10. tyler says:

    When in doubt, describe what is happening, or what you are thinking.

  11. Sharon says:

    I love and have used many of these. The only one I’d definitely never use is calling his cock a baby maker. That’s not HOTT at all.

  12. nikki says:

    My pussy ached when I read this. 5PM can’t get here fast enough, guess I’m on my own until my man gets home.

  13. hotshoetom says:

    This is a good start. Learning to do this is more about just verbalizing whats going on in your head….keep in mind the more u share the better the connection and the better the sex. Its about appreciating your partners attributes and saying what you would like to do or will do or want them to do to u. Communication is the key…the better that is, the better the cumming for both of u.

  14. Lavendar says:

    I just read this article. I use quite a few of these myself when I’m with my boyfriend. Either one on one or thru sexting or simple phone sex, you have given me a few more to keep our sex life alive and fresh. Thank you.

  15. bwi says:

    thank u fo the helpful info m gonna try it trmw wth my hubby wen he cums back frm his trip

  16. kimberly says:

    Tnks so much, you help awaken my dead sex lifen now my bf enjoys me more.

  17. Kevin Fior says:

    Really hot

  18. george moore says:

    My wife and I agreed I thin it was right on the way home from our honeymoon, that sex Should never be started in bed! Say something in the morning like “I’ll be thinking of you today”, He kisses you and you say ” I had better get my black teddy out tonight”. Our rub your hand over his groin, Wife…you start it sometimesa!

  19. Rhonda says:

    One of the best sexual pleasures is the inhibition to let go and the dirty talk increases the pleasures.

    Great article!!!

  20. Rei says:

    This turned me on big time. I’m still somewhat of a virgin. I haven’t had sex with a guy but I do have a vibrator and masterbate like almost everyday. I want to feel good right now.

  21. Jim says:

    I like to ask my partner’s if they’re mothers. If they are, I’ll tell them that it makes me a motherfucker. I’ll then ask them if they like to be fucked by a motherfucker. This is a real turn on for most who like dirty talk in bed. If the girl shaves her pussy I make a big deal about it with my tongue, hands, and words. If she is up for it I’ll spank her little girl bottom and make her beg for more punishment because she was playing with herself while shaving. When you use dirty words anything goes, but it must stay in the bedroom if you want a slutty time.

  22. jojo says:

    The best of all I can’t believe that my man now gets the best game ever thanks to this blog

  23. Marie says:

    This is good. I wish I had someone though lol

  24. cay says:

    im 41 and i just have a bf , we are having a long distance relationship since he is in the other side of the world, at first we chat intimately then we do videocall where we touch while seeing each other its a big turn on, everyday we chat and always end up being sexually aroused. it makes our relationship more solid, and i cant wait to have him physically

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