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How To Talk Dirty: 50 Examples That Will Make You Blush!

124 Comments 15 June 2010

By Nellioness

“Just lie back and let me make you cum”
“You taste so good”
“You can have me any way you want, babe”
“Look how ready I am. Don’t you want to put your dick in there?”

What do you feel as you read this? Did that just turn you on a little bit? Yes? Then this article is for you! No? Then this article is for you!

Aww, those dirty words… They are powerful and seductive in the bedroom and many of us use them for expression and effect. Yesterday my friend asked me if I know how to talk dirty. So today I’m going to share with you some dirty talk tips and examples that will help you figure out how to approach the naughty fun of talking in the sack and feel more comfortable about it.

As for me, talking dirty is an essential part of my sex life and one of the naughtiest things I enjoy. Dirty talk is the opportunity to really push back all the boundaries and stops. Being sweet and polite by nature, and expressing my dirty side in bed and blurting out sexy rude things is a lot of fun and gives a spice to my sex life.

Talking dirty to your sweetheart is a great form of sex play, but there are certain things you must keep in mind in order to have the best experience.

What is a Dirty Talk?
Dirty talk (sexy talk, naughty talk, etc) is a sex play involving sensual/sexual phrasing in order to drive one’s partner or oneself wild through words and imagination, and heighten sexual pleasure before and during sex. Through a dirty talk you can stimulate your partner’s major senses: sound, sight and touch. Lovers use dirty talk as a way of expressing their wants and needs in the heat of the moment.

If done right and at the right time, dirty talk is one of the hottest things you can do for your lover!

How to talk dirty?
Types of Dirty Talk: the soft-core and the hard-core.

The soft-core dirty talk may include sweet nothings, and “not so dirty” phrases and words. The soft-core version is a great way to start with dirty talk. In the beginning it is best to stick with the words you already know these work well and gradually add new naughty words and phrases here and there during sex. After all, who says a dirty talk has to be always vulgar? First of all, it has to be comfortable for both lovers and sound seductively enough to make you aroused and ready for more! We all know that sometimes the simple statements work incredibly well.

“I love the things you do with your tongue”
“Honey, you’re the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen!”
“I want you so bad”
“Your wish is my command”

The hard-core dirty talk may involve swear words and slang words. Many lovers find it extremely hot if you use them, especially if you don’t usually swear. If you prefer to use some of the most vulgar words and phrases known to man, then so be it as long you are comfortable with it and keep it within both of you. Talking dirty is like a secret with your sweetheart, a secret that only you two know and enjoy behind closed doors.

“I want to rub my pussy all over your face”
“Spray your juice all over my tits”
“Put your big fat baby maker inside my pussy and fuck my brain out. Right now!”
“This is how a real man fucks!”

Dirty talking ways
A great way to sound sexy and dirty is describing out loud what is happening during sex, how wonderful it feels in your body; talking out your dirty fantasies; telling your partner something you’re going to do and something you want your lover to do to you right now. If you can hold eye contact as you’re describing it, you get some extra pleasure, believe me. And one more thing: complimenting your lover is one more way to sound dirty in the sack. Compliment and praise your lover, give her/him an ego boost. Talk about his/her body and tell him/her about your favorite part of his/her body. Be descriptive and creative!

“You look so sexy when you do that”
“You taste sooo good”
“Oh, that feels so good! Do that again!”
“No one has ever made me come as hard as you can”

It’s not what you say, but how you say it
Dirty talk doesn’t involve only words and phrases. You may use your voice and sounds: moans, groans, sighs; whispering and screaming. You can sound commanding and harsh, submissive and uncertain, and everywhere in between.

It should come naturally from you
Please, do not say words that make you feel uncomfortable. Try to be yourself and say the words that come out naturally. Just say what comes to mind. So, in order to sound spontaneous and really sexy, you have to wait for the right moment because if a dirty talk isn’t done right and at the right time; then prepare to deal with laughter and giggles 🙂 After all, the point of dirty talk is to have fun, so don’t worry if it sounds funny!

Sometimes the laughter can give way to the most natural dirty talk and dirtiest phrases! So, if your sweetheart’s dirty talk makes you laugh, say something like “Shut up, sweetie, and use your mouth on me. I adore that!” or “Don’t talk dirty to me, play dirty to me!” 🙂 Perfect: now you’re talking dirty!

Dirty talk boundaries
When the subject of dirty talk comes up, the first thing to do is communicate your dirty talk boundaries. If there are words that you don’t like, you have to tell your sweetheart. Once you have agreed on what works and what doesn’t – have fun!

Dirty talk is not disrespect; this is a sex play
Behind closed doors, almost all women enjoy being treated like a little whore every now and then. But everyone should separate a sex play from reality. So if she is a “bitch” in the sack, that doesn’t mean that she would like to be called a “bitch” outside of the bedroom.

Okay, so you are in the mood to talk sexy/dirty/naughty to your lover and aren’t sure what to say? I hope the coming examples will come in quite handy.

50 Dirty Talk Examples, From Not-So-Dirty to So-So-Dirty!

1. Tell me all the dirty little things you do when you masturbate, you naughty boy/girl. Tell me everything, baby. Tell me how you play with yourself.
2. Do you like it when I touch myself here?
3. Lie back and shut up! I’m going to make you come until you can’t breathe.
4. Kiss me there… Lick every inch of me.
5. Come over here and ride me hard!
6. Fuck me. Right now!
7. Use me as your toy all night long.
8. Touch yourself and let me watch you.
9. Do you want more? Take it!
10. Give me that come, honey. I want it in my mouth. Come on, give it to me.
11. It drives me crazy when you look at me that way.
12. I’m going to do you right now, honey. Your pussy… or your ass…?
13. Well, you stupid fucker, I won’t let you fuck my ass… So what?
14. Shut the fuck up! I’ll fuck you wherever I want, naughty little whore!
15. I always get what I want.
16. Okay, babe, you can have any hole you want.
17. I love the way it sounds when you fuck me. Hear it?
18. I want you to suck out all the juices you put in me with your mouth.
19. Baby don’t stop! Oh my god, I love it when you do that!
20. I’m so fuckin’ wet, just let me suck your sweet lollipop…
21. Put your baby maker inside my hole and fuck my brain out!
22. Just grab my head and force me closer!
23. I’m your slave for the night. Tell me what you want.
24. You can have me any way you want…
25. Get over here, big boy. And show me who’s the boss!
26. Where do you want to come?
27. I want it all over me. Cover me with it.
28. What a sweet sexy ass!
29. Do you like my juicy pussy/big dick? Tell me what you see. Describe it to me.
30. You’re my bitch. I adore how naughty you are. I love you.
31. Babe, you have to follow all my rules tonight.
32. No stops this time. Let’s see how many times I can make you come.
33. Don’t you dare come until I say you can!
34. Maybe you should spank me – I’ve been very, very bad.
35. I want you to undress and wait for me in the bedroom.
36. Get on your hands and knees, sweetheart… and wait like a good girl.
37. Spread your legs wide for me, sweet darling. Your body is mine tonight.
38. You like it when I spread my legs and take you in?
39. I can’t believe what you’re doing! Please do not stop!
40. I love pleasing you and the sounds of your pleasure drive me crazy.
41. You little slut, I’m going to fuck you till you can’t walk! Ready?
42. Fill me up, daddy, fuck my tight cunt! Make me scream with that big dick of yours!
43. Faster! Deeper! Harder!
44. What a hot nasty girl you are! I will wash your mouth out with my cum if you talk dirty, naughty girl.
45. I love how big your cock gets when I talk to you like this.
46. I love sucking your cock. And I’m going to lick it clean.
47. Cum for me baby, cum in my mouth, I want to taste you.
48. I could spend hours between your legs; teasing… sucking; sipping; tasting you.
49. I want you. I want to make love with you. I want to enjoy sex with you. I want to fuck you.
50. Oh, baby, that was the best fuck I’ve ever had. Thank you for that.

Don’t be quiet in the bedroom! Be a good girl/boy who knows how to be bad and talk dirty. 😉 Work your way into it and take it easy!

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Your Comments

124 Comments so far

  1. Krystal says:

    W.o.w.. All I can say is thank you. My man really likes this kind of stuff, and I’m quiet and reserved. I am really glad I have this as a reference.
    Thank you.

  2. Lolly says:

    My man and I are laughing our heads off over these ideas so I guess it brought us together….

  3. Geishachick says:

    I love this stuff. I am so wet right now.
    “I’m your bitch tonight. Pull my hair and spank me hard! Ram that big, fat, magnificent cock of yours into my tight little ass, fuck me hard and make me scream!” my man loves it and so do I. Win win. Total lady outside the bedroom which makes it so much hotter in the bedroom.

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  8. Shelly says:

    Thanks, now I’m hotter than I was a few min ago – all this naughty talk is driving me crazy. This article and now this site has caught my attention. I will have sweet hot dreams tonight 🙂

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  15. Bubster says:

    Dirty talk is a great way to get your woman to cum hard. I love to call my girl my filthy worthless cum dumpster when I am banging her pussy from behind. It makes her so wet and hot. But if I call her a cum dumpster when not getting it on,it pisses her off. I took a Human Sexuality course in College. Most Woman are naturally very sexually universal. Much more than men are. So guys, don’t be afraid to get crazy once in a while in the bedroom. You would be surprised what the right dirty words can do for your partner. Learn to push the right buttons verbally and it will make her hot as a firecracker. Trust me, I am an master of making em squirt!!

  16. Syxty9yN says:

    DAMN! Brilliant article… I love it when a chick talks dirty it just drives me up the wall. Thanks for this am goin hard with these lines, so how to get the girlfriend to get Nasty…. she has the potential thou so wish me luck

  17. Sammi says:

    hahahah I don’t know about that baby maker one

  18. Guide To Talking Dirty says:

    I think your man will love talking dirty

  19. Carl says:

    My wife would say, just take your babymaker out of me before your babymaking juice makes a baby.

  20. Carl says:

    As a kid I learned to have sex quietly as not to get caught. Never broke out of that routine. So many girls wld say, dont you talk when u hav sex? This sight will realy help. Thanks.

  21. carol says:

    Thank you so much i was afraid to talk but atleast now i have a clue on what’ve really helped me.

  22. Marie says:

    ….. This is kinda lame… I guess Im looking for something advanced. This is all obvious stuff.

  23. Beth says:

    Not keen on being called a whore or dirty, worthless, cum dumpster EVER. It is not sexy or fun. Can’t you think of terms that are a tad more classy and erudite?

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  27. Olive says:

    I used #44 and got slapped. Way to break up a 4 year marriage cosmo!!!!

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  29. Steve says:

    My lady friend who LOVES dirty talk, would be bitterly disappointed at the lameness of the examples you have presented. Don’t hint at it, SAY IT! I know you are passing this on to the uninitiated, but so was I until a short time ago. One nasty word in a whole paragraph aint gonna cut it for her. Please look at the above as a mild starting point and arc it up from there.

  30. ela says:

    LMAO… I can’t take it. I’m a shy person can’t do those baby maker…

  31. Lil boss says:

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  34. Mark says:

    So fucking lame. Holy shit! are you fucking kidding me??? This had to be written by a woman. If my girlfriend said just about any of these 50 things I would be so turned off that we would not be able to have sex. Baby maker?? Really?? No Man wants to hear that during sex!!!
    I do agree that talking dirty is fun and adds to the excitement. But these examples suck!! And not in a good way!

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  38. Lauren says:

    “Baby maker”??? That is not sexy. If my husband heard that he would stop fucking me and make me take a prego test.

  39. Onehornygirl says:

    I love my man talking dirty to me and calling me a whore, a bitch and telling me I’m naughty. He always asks me if I’m ready for his huge cock yet!? He asks me if Im loving it and slaps my ass whilst calling me his whore. Yeh some of it may seem degrading but when ur in love and ur secure u know that it’s purely sexual! My man would never say that to me out the bedroom. So now I want to talk dirty back to him and some of these sayings are perfect although I wanna go one step further and say something disgusting as I know deep down he would want to be filthier! The baby maker comment isn’t for me but I can understand why some men would find that sense of empowerment a turn on because we do need your cocks to give us a baby and that turns me on a little! Although I am already pregnant! So yeh this is a good site 🙂 I’m going to see my boyfriend tonight and its going to be insane as he likes me make me cum a lot! I’m gonna tell him to release over my face whilst his balls are in my mouth and then I’m gonna wipe it with my fingers and suck my fingers after. I just need to have a better vocabulary but ill get there 🙂

  40. ccaliforniababe says:

    Hmmm, im just so shy that even though i know he wants me to “talk to me” as he always says to me. I still cant get out of that good girl part of me. It might not be a good site for those of you that already do the sex talk, but its an eye opener for me. I guess i have to practice on this.

  41. Sheila-Rae says:

    I thought #42 was the Best LoLz.

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  43. sanchea says:

    I enjoy reading your sex talk examples but i really need help to be a naughty girl in the bedroom with my husband and learn how to talk dirty to him please help me.

  44. Sam says:

    This made me so horny just reading it!!pussy is tingling Deffo going to try this next time!!

  45. Sara says:

    Some of the ex. I would never say, not b/c they are too crude but rather too corny. I would never call him daddy or baby maker in bed. I would never say I want to suck on your lollipop…But I will say, I am going to give you head even if it kills you. I am going to give you head even if you die. Fuck or die. I love it when a guy talks dirty, esp. when he is dominating or takes me some place where I am too scared to go alone…like, I fantasize about anal even though I have never tried it…but I don’t think I would have the guts to say, fuck me in the ass…partially b/c I am nervous b/c I have never tried it. But if HE said that, o god, I’d prob. be cumming.

  46. Sara Jean says:

    The ex. are a good starting point. But I think a person would need to go further, improvise with them a little. Some of the ex. I would never say, not b/c they are too crude but rather too corny. I would never call him daddy or baby maker in bed. I would never say I want to suck on your lollipop…But I will say, I am going to give you head even if it kills you. I am going to give you head even if you die. Fuck or die. I love it when a guy talks dirty, esp. when he is dominating or takes me some place where I am too scared to go alone…like, I fantasize about anal even though I have never tried it…but I don’t think I would have the guts to say, fuck me in the ass…partially b/c I am nervous b/c I have never tried it. But if HE said that, o god, I’d prob. be cumming.

  47. shy on the outside.slut on the inside says:

    My hubby rlly wants to hear me talk nasty to him in bed or not a.d i ca. Think up some very dirty tbings but my trouble is in getting my thoughts into words. Im very self concious and dont know how tu get out ofmy head..

  48. horny says:

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  49. Conrad says:

    These are ridiculous! thanks for the laugh!!!

  50. Lola says:

    I’ve always wanted to talk dirty just didn’t know how. Thanks for this site. I am shy, but I’m going to try and break out of my shell. Fingers crossed xxx

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