By Nellioness
“Just lie back and let me make you cum”
“You taste so good”
“You can have me any way you want, babe”
“Look how ready I am. Don’t you want to put your dick in there?”
What do you feel as you read this? Did that just turn you on a little bit? Yes? Then this article is for you! No? Then this article is for you!
Aww, those dirty words… They are powerful and seductive in the bedroom and many of us use them for expression and effect. Yesterday my friend asked me if I know how to talk dirty. So today I’m going to share with you some dirty talk tips and examples that will help you figure out how to approach the naughty fun of talking in the sack and feel more comfortable about it.
As for me, talking dirty is an essential part of my sex life and one of the naughtiest things I enjoy. Dirty talk is the opportunity to really push back all the boundaries and stops. Being sweet and polite by nature, and expressing my dirty side in bed and blurting out sexy rude things is a lot of fun and gives a spice to my sex life.
Talking dirty to your sweetheart is a great form of sex play, but there are certain things you must keep in mind in order to have the best experience.
What is a Dirty Talk?
Dirty talk (sexy talk, naughty talk, etc) is a sex play involving sensual/sexual phrasing in order to drive one’s partner or oneself wild through words and imagination, and heighten sexual pleasure before and during sex. Through a dirty talk you can stimulate your partner’s major senses: sound, sight and touch. Lovers use dirty talk as a way of expressing their wants and needs in the heat of the moment.
If done right and at the right time, dirty talk is one of the hottest things you can do for your lover!
How to talk dirty?
Types of Dirty Talk: the soft-core and the hard-core.
The soft-core dirty talk may include sweet nothings, and “not so dirty” phrases and words. The soft-core version is a great way to start with dirty talk. In the beginning it is best to stick with the words you already know these work well and gradually add new naughty words and phrases here and there during sex. After all, who says a dirty talk has to be always vulgar? First of all, it has to be comfortable for both lovers and sound seductively enough to make you aroused and ready for more! We all know that sometimes the simple statements work incredibly well.
“I love the things you do with your tongue”
“Honey, you’re the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen!”
“I want you so bad”
“Your wish is my command”
The hard-core dirty talk may involve swear words and slang words. Many lovers find it extremely hot if you use them, especially if you don’t usually swear. If you prefer to use some of the most vulgar words and phrases known to man, then so be it as long you are comfortable with it and keep it within both of you. Talking dirty is like a secret with your sweetheart, a secret that only you two know and enjoy behind closed doors.
“I want to rub my pussy all over your face”
“Spray your juice all over my tits”
“Put your big fat baby maker inside my pussy and fuck my brain out. Right now!”
“This is how a real man fucks!”
Dirty talking ways
A great way to sound sexy and dirty is describing out loud what is happening during sex, how wonderful it feels in your body; talking out your dirty fantasies; telling your partner something you’re going to do and something you want your lover to do to you right now. If you can hold eye contact as you’re describing it, you get some extra pleasure, believe me. And one more thing: complimenting your lover is one more way to sound dirty in the sack. Compliment and praise your lover, give her/him an ego boost. Talk about his/her body and tell him/her about your favorite part of his/her body. Be descriptive and creative!
“You look so sexy when you do that”
“You taste sooo good”
“Oh, that feels so good! Do that again!”
“No one has ever made me come as hard as you can”
It’s not what you say, but how you say it
Dirty talk doesn’t involve only words and phrases. You may use your voice and sounds: moans, groans, sighs; whispering and screaming. You can sound commanding and harsh, submissive and uncertain, and everywhere in between.
It should come naturally from you
Please, do not say words that make you feel uncomfortable. Try to be yourself and say the words that come out naturally. Just say what comes to mind. So, in order to sound spontaneous and really sexy, you have to wait for the right moment because if a dirty talk isn’t done right and at the right time; then prepare to deal with laughter and giggles 
After all, the point of dirty talk is to have fun, so don’t worry if it sounds funny!
Sometimes the laughter can give way to the most natural dirty talk and dirtiest phrases! So, if your sweetheart’s dirty talk makes you laugh, say something like “Shut up, sweetie, and use your mouth on me. I adore that!” or “Don’t talk dirty to me, play dirty to me!” Perfect: now you’re talking dirty!
Dirty talk boundaries
When the subject of dirty talk comes up, the first thing to do is communicate your dirty talk boundaries. If there are words that you don’t like, you have to tell your sweetheart. Once you have agreed on what works and what doesn’t – have fun!
Dirty talk is not disrespect; this is a sex play
Behind closed doors, almost all women enjoy being treated like a little whore every now and then. But everyone should separate a sex play from reality. So if she is a “bitch” in the sack, that doesn’t mean that she would like to be called a “bitch” outside of the bedroom.
SO WHAT TO SAY?
Okay, so you are in the mood to talk sexy/dirty/naughty to your lover and aren’t sure what to say? I hope the coming examples will come in quite handy.
50 Dirty Talk Examples, From Not-So-Dirty to So-So-Dirty!
1. Tell me all the dirty little things you do when you masturbate, you naughty boy/girl. Tell me everything, baby. Tell me how you play with yourself.
2. Do you like it when I touch myself here?
3. Lie back and shut up! I’m going to make you come until you can’t breathe.
4. Kiss me there… Lick every inch of me.
5. Come over here and ride me hard!
6. Fuck me. Right now!
7. Use me as your toy all night long.
8. Touch yourself and let me watch you.
9. Do you want more? Take it!
10. Give me that come, honey. I want it in my mouth. Come on, give it to me.
11. It drives me crazy when you look at me that way.
12. I’m going to do you right now, honey. Your pussy… or your ass…?
13. Well, you stupid fucker, I won’t let you fuck my ass… So what?
14. Shut the fuck up! I’ll fuck you wherever I want, naughty little whore!
15. I always get what I want.
16. Okay, babe, you can have any hole you want.
17. I love the way it sounds when you fuck me. Hear it?
18. I want you to suck out all the juices you put in me with your mouth.
19. Baby don’t stop! Oh my god, I love it when you do that!
20. I’m so fuckin’ wet, just let me suck your sweet lollipop…
21. Put your baby maker inside my hole and fuck my brain out!
22. Just grab my head and force me closer!
23. I’m your slave for the night. Tell me what you want.
24. You can have me any way you want…
25. Get over here, big boy. And show me who’s the boss!
26. Where do you want to come?
27. I want it all over me. Cover me with it.
28. What a sweet sexy ass!
29. Do you like my juicy pussy/big dick? Tell me what you see. Describe it to me.
30. You’re my bitch. I adore how naughty you are. I love you.
31. Babe, you have to follow all my rules tonight.
32. No stops this time. Let’s see how many times I can make you come.
33. Don’t you dare come until I say you can!
34. Maybe you should spank me – I’ve been very, very bad.
35. I want you to undress and wait for me in the bedroom.
36. Get on your hands and knees, sweetheart… and wait like a good girl.
37. Spread your legs wide for me, sweet darling. Your body is mine tonight.
38. You like it when I spread my legs and take you in?
39. I can’t believe what you’re doing! Please do not stop!
40. I love pleasing you and the sounds of your pleasure drive me crazy.
41. You little slut, I’m going to fuck you till you can’t walk! Ready?
42. Fill me up, daddy, fuck my tight cunt! Make me scream with that big dick of yours!
43. Faster! Deeper! Harder!
44. What a hot nasty girl you are! I will wash your mouth out with my cum if you talk dirty, naughty girl.
45. I love how big your cock gets when I talk to you like this.
46. I love sucking your cock. And I’m going to lick it clean.
47. Cum for me baby, cum in my mouth, I want to taste you.
48. I could spend hours between your legs; teasing… sucking; sipping; tasting you.
49. I want you. I want to make love with you. I want to enjoy sex with you. I want to fuck you.
50. Oh, baby, that was the best fuck I’ve ever had. Thank you for that.
Don’t be quiet in the bedroom! Be a good girl/boy who knows how to be bad and talk dirty. 
Work your way into it and take it easy!
Recommended links
Sex-lexis.com online dictionary of sexual terms, expressions, vulgar speech, sex slang, quotes and synonyms
found your site on del.icio.us today and really liked it.. i bookmarked it and will be back to check it out some more later
Dirty talk is a sex play involving sensual/sexual phrasing in order to drive one’s partner or oneself wild through words and imagination, and heighten sexual pleasure before and during sex. Through a dirty talk you can stimulate your partner’s major senses. Lovers use dirty talk as a way of expressing their wants and needs in the heat of the moment. thanks for sharing great articles .
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very enlightening and encouraging.a plus in my repertoire.
My wife never told me she submitted #42 to you guys – what a minx!
nice
Haha, great article. It should lead to some definite fun times.
baby maker…?
How about double meaning?
What great info. I have sorted out some of your sex talk/play that I can use on my man
Call me shallow but calling my penis a babymaker is kind of a deal breaker.
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Well ,,what if the wife once say to her husband,,,{ I love your tool,,It is the biggest among all your friends….}..
Is that still kind of stimulating for sex session ????
I found you in twitter. Always loved your tweets and posts
My lover just emailed this. What is she trying to suggest?
Reply to Alex:
I would never say that to a man; their ego’s are way too fragile!! He’d probably think how many of my friends have you had sex with since you’re comparing my dick to theirs?!
Alex
“Well ,,what if the wife once say to her husband,,,{ I love your tool,,It is the biggest among all your friends….}..
Is that still kind of stimulating for sex session ????”
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love talking dirty,real turn on,dressing up too-wow!cant beat it!
you spelled cum wrong way too many times
These examples sound like they came straight out of a bad porn movie. They’re so ridiculous, I laughed hysterically reading every one! Thanks for my entertainment for today.
oh my fucking god, people actually need to be told what to do when it comes to this? i thought i was lacking in this department but apparently not. I mean some of these are sexy but some are far too 70′s porn-ish. cool artical but damn…i blushed but only because i have no idea who would call their mans cock a “baby maker”….dear god xD
I think this is some really good info, does anyone know any info about how to start role playing. Me and my man already have a pretty stimulating and edgy sex life, but I want to keep it interesting, any help?
Shut the fuck you prudes. While you’re on here making snide comments why don’t you go blow your man instead
One word you should definitely bring into your sexual vocabulary if it isn’t there already is the word fuck.
Maybe you are too much of a romantic for a word like fuck to be of any use to you in your relationship. Fair enough. But try the word out in the privacy of your mind a few times and explore whether it helps you feels hornier, sexier, more potent, more desirous of wanting to fuck someone big-time. Next time you’re with your lover, you can say, or think to yourself: we were born to fuck each other. See if that heats things up a few degrees.
These seem to be generally with an dominate man, a demanding woman in the bedroom can be just as fun!
How about if you tell your man that your his dirty fucking whore who’s needs to be punished. Or tell him that your his dirty slut and you want fuck his face. Drives my man crazy and I’m the shyest person which he loves even more as he knows that those are things that I’d never say. Tell him you’ll be his sex slave and will make him cum whilst you fuck him with your mouth and beg for him to cum in your mouth and all over your fucking breasts. It’s a bit more hardcore than the list above I guess…
One thing that sets things off like crazy is talking about how you see them outside of the bedroom and what you think about doing to them when u get them in there ex: “When we are walking down the street together and all those men are looking at you all I can think of is grabbing your perfect ass and treating you like the whore you are” or “all I could think about on our trip today is how I wanted to tear those shorts off of you and treat you like this”
Man I fucked my girl last night and she said number 34 I slapped Tht ass hard
Ohhhh , Wow Dat Helped -.-
sometimes, I say: “let’s do it”
ohh yeah im offically turned on cant stop touching myself here and there oh oh ohhh god my tits are so fuckin hard need someone to suck on them
Oh, man, just reading this makes me wanna make love 2 someone! Fuck me! I wanna be fucking Fucked!
wow i got horny just reading this lol =)….just got with a guy who loves this….this is all new to me…but i love it….i gotta learn….im a rookie
i would like to sumit a phrase!
Girls when your on top riding your man you tell him, ” come on baby, come, kiddy wants more cream!” . . it worked for me and he loved it.
So glad i found this site! I met this guy and its been a physical relationship from the start. We cant keep our hands off each other. He loves talking dirty and i love hearing it, but im not comfortable talking dirty back. I can think it, just too shy to say what im thinking. Im gonna have to try and break out of my shell. Some of the things listed would drive him crazy!
i wanna talk dirty with my luvr bt i don’t know how….at last i found this site!!!!!!! thnx a lot………
I love telling my gal to suck her pussy juice off my cock (when she cums) … and then I ask her if she loves the way her pussy tastes as much as I do… she goes crazy and I get some great head.
Any suggestions to someone who gets completely turned off by dirty sex talk, especially with the 4 letter words?
Where one partner gets turned on and the other gets turned off?
i’m dating an italian guy who won’t talk dirty
its very frustrating for me. But i want him to hurt me and say nasty things. I think he’s just too sweet 
Oh my goodness reading this made my pussy tingle so badly . I’m so….. Horny now x
So, I read Nikie’s post and almost got off on her thoughts. Imagine, her pussy tingling while my cock is burning to explore the secrets of her pussy? Unfair don’t you think? This site will destroy me!!
Guess I did it wrong,my girl is about to leave me.
these r some good ones but when i did them i just got slapped in the face :/
that mad me horny
When it come to sex talk you have to know what your partner is into. I love to talk dirty at times but it’s nothing that I just have to do.
Bow down to the great words in this article. USE IT PEOPLE. It works
You call that dirty talk? Laughs
Your Honor, all I said was, “Shut the fuck up! I’ll fuck you wherever I want, naughty little whore!”
I like it when a man tells me he likes the way my tight pussy feels around his Dick, man that drives me crazy… I ask him who’s pussy is it he replies my pussy and i say no you got to earn this sweet pussy Fuck the shit out of me with your hard big cock!
“your big fat baby maker” JESUS CHRIST WHAT THE FUCK I’M LAUGHING SO HARD