Dating and Relationships, Enjoyment, Sex

Hot Stats From the 2009 Sex Survey

1 Comment 22 May 2010

Check out the results of the new AARP sex and romance survey, and see how your own love life stacks up.

Among Americans aged 45 and older, about…

  • 54% are married
  • 5% aren’t married but are in a committed relationship
  • 30% are single (widowed, divorced, or never married) but aren’t dating
  • 10% are single and are actively dating—meaning they have a current or recent sex partner. People in this group were among the happiest in the survey.
  • 1 in 5 say they’re looking for a person to date.
  • 29% would describe their partner as “imaginative about sex.”
  • 46% are they’re less satisfied with their sex life than they were a decade ago.
  • 64% have never discussed their sexual fantasies with their partners.
  • 8% of men and 2% of women have a same-sex partner.
  • 1 in 5 women in their 50s say they’d be quite happy to never have sex again. About 1 in 50 men in their 50s agree.
  • 30% of men say they have some degree erectile dysfunction (E.D.). About 23% say they’ve been officially diagnosed with E.D. or impotence (which has increased by 6% since 2004).
  • 60% of men aged 45-59 rated their sexual relationship as “extremely pleasurable,” but only 41% of women in this age group agree. They were almost four times more likely as men to rate their sexual relationship as “not pleasurable at all.”
  • 29% of men want their partners to initiate sex more often.
  • 20% of men and 12% of women have oral sex at least once a week.
  • 45% of men and 8% of women say they think of sex at least once a day.
  • 73% of men and 33% of women in their 50s say they have an orgasm every time they have sex.

Source: Sex, Romance, and Relationships: AARP Survey of Midlife and Older Adults

Your Comments

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  1. C... says:

    Who are these people … I am amazed they’d never want sex again and how little they think of it. I think most people don’t honestly admit how often they think about sex. Either that or that’s what’s on MY mind a lot.


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